I don't feel the refs reward the aggressive players, the problem is the talent is not like it used to be. Your best players today would be like number 10 on there team from years ago. The talent is so diluted and all you have are girls being taught by coaches who scream the whole game at the girls at the refs because of there lack of ability to coach a team of not so talented players. Coaches are only as good as the players they have and when the talent is so bad then it makes it for a worse overall game. Then you have all the entitled children and entitled parents who think that their child should be rewarded. Poor coaching, poor parenting and lack of talent is whats wrong with the game today.