Everyone’s process is different. You can’t compare what’s happening to other girls to your daughters. Your daughter will end up where she’s meant to be. Anyone that discusses who is contacting their daughter or who is talking to a coach about their daughter is gaudy. I understand girls get excited, but they shouldn’t talk about their process to anyone & you should 100% give that advise to your daughter.
Just curious why you think parents or players should not talk to anyone about their process. Several parents asked me about the process for my kids, (I had no problem discussing it) I am sure some of my kids friends asked them as well. Personally I do not think it's a big deal, and I do not believe discussing the process with other parents has any affect on the process or where your child ends up being recruited or where your child commits. IMHO communication is helpful as long as you are not the type of person to become envious, jealous and or bitter.
Your process and the specifics are private. Communication is excellent as long as you’re not the type of person to to use it for your own sideline chest puffing. Discretion is the better part of valor.
My experience has been that parents who are going through this for the first time ask questions. Nothing wrong with answering them and sharing information. Never really saw many, if any parents running onto the sidelines talking about their experience without others asking questions. What I did witness many times was parents getting upset at camps when college coaches were pulling players (not their daughter) aside during and at the end of the camp to recruit the players.
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