Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Everyone’s process is different. You can’t compare what’s happening to other girls to your daughters. Your daughter will end up where she’s meant to be. Anyone that discusses who is contacting their daughter or who is talking to a coach about their daughter is gaudy. I understand girls get excited, but they shouldn’t talk about their process to anyone & you should 100% give that advise to your daughter.

Just curious why you think parents or players should not talk to anyone about their process. Several parents asked me about the process for my kids, (I had no problem discussing it) I am sure some of my kids friends asked them as well. Personally I do not think it's a big deal, and I do not believe discussing the process with other parents has any affect on the process or where your child ends up being recruited or where your child commits. IMHO communication is helpful as long as you are not the type of person to become envious, jealous and or bitter.


Your process and the specifics are private. Communication is excellent as long as you’re not the type of person to to use it for your own sideline chest puffing. Discretion is the better part of valor.
Unfortunately, you will see how relationships change Sept 1st. Parents are going to compare your daughter to theirs & will say things that may discourage your process. I know this because I’ve been there. Best advise is to just keep your communications (specifics) to yourselves.

Best advice is to not get discouraged and to teach your daughter the same. It’s like not being offended by what others say or do…

I do agree that you should strive to encourage and not discourage. The same goes for offending, you should do you best not to offend anyone but you should really work on not being offended.

The reality is that some people MeanyH@!€$….
Best to teach your kids how to deal with them and not let them affect you.

The recruiting process may be the first “life will punch you in the gut” experience for some of our kids.

If things don’t go as planned out of the gate don’t let your daughter get discouraged.

Don’t mean to rant but have been through the process multiple times.

Stay positive, be persistent, keep working and don’t get discouraged.

Good luck to everyone.