"Multiple girls on 24 and 25 Black have been cut by M&D in middle school years and turned down Red offers. Can't think of any who turned down black offers."
This is not true. There have been girls who have turned down black offers.
Of course there have, I just wonder if they were black balled from the club because of it.
Nobody is blackballing high level talent. Unless the player/ parent was unprofessional the first go-round with the communication.