You will never convince a holdback parent that the little superstar would not have the same success if playing against kids the same age. Don’t even bother. People are just pointing out the obvious and the holdback parents having no response will come back with insults and wrong assumptions about people on here that they don’t even know. If you want to holdback your kid to get an advantage that is fine but don’t be mad when people always say “ but he is older”. The fact is he is older and people will always point that out because it is true.