Originally Posted by Anonymous
"Club lacrosse is a business. It is a business for the club owners, the club coaches, the players / parents, the college coaches, the people who run the tournaments etc... How people choose to spend their time and money is their business. Where and when they choose to play is their business. If the club director chooses to not take a player on a team it is their business. Parents should do what they believe is best for their child. You want people to help your child and when they put their own child first you call them selfish. You believe it is okay to put your own child first and that your opinion is superior to the opinion of others."

Pathetic response at best. Your kid is part of a team , sometimes being part of a team means not doing the selfish thing . By the way you dope the definition of selfish is essentially ' lacking consideration for others, concerned chiefly with one's own personal advantage" or doing exactly what you did. Your LI education and upbringing is laughable in that you have no idea what a selfish dope you sound like. My kid is committed and actually showed up to support her teammates and friends and got to play in front of her future college coach at the G8. Hopefully your kids future college coach was there and was wondering why your little brat did not show up to support her teammates , maybe you can tell them your kid has to do what's right for her even if its not what is best for the team because the college coaches love that attitude.


Sorry, it is club lacrosse and the entire circus is a business . Please stop trying to make it out to be anything more than that. As your bitter attitude suggests you are not concerned one bit about the team or the players. It is not HS or College Lacrosse where The Team comes first. You choose to do what you think is best for your daughter and you also want to tell the rest of us what we should have our daughters do. Get over yourself.