You must be a very special person. Your ability to track used sports equipment is awesome! The Crabs 28 Coaching staff has been together ( for the most part) 4 years. Not once have I heard obscenities. For you to make a remark from 5 years ago , and different Coaches, is weak.
Maybe the problem is you. I feel sorry for you & your son. What parenting skills were you using to put that much pressure on him about sports so he won’t talk to you? This isn’t on any Crabs Dad, or Coaches, this is on you.