hey typical 91 parent vicariously living through your kid, you seem like such an expert...did it ever cross your mind that maybe some of the kids on the wolfpack don't belong there and that they maybe made the team for reasons other than lacrosse? Family and Friends? You know what I mean but just can't admit it because maybe your kid is one of them. Ask around, every club has them...the wolfpack parents who's kid's are good, and deserve to be there, know exactly who you are, believe me. Also, btw they are 8 yrs old and one day your kid maybe on the outside looking in. Remember this post. One last thing, was that you dressed up in your Ward Melville 1988 Lax Uniform out on the front lawn? I bet it was...
I never played the game, so I leave it to the organization (and 91 is the best) to make the decision as to where he should play. That is what I pay for and I believe that I get a professional evaluation. If you don't do that where you are, then you should reconsider your "home".
I don't need to wear the uni because my son earned his own, so I just watch and enjoy. As we go along this road, I will not get bitter over what others get like you do and I can see the results of my kids own hard work. When he is outside looking in (which will happen to most if not all of the kids eventually) He will have his own work ethic and his character to build upon.
And when you are stalking someone's house to check on what they are wearing, consider going to work instead. All of your bitterness is probably reflected in your poor job performance too. What I often see is that bitter kids have bitter parents.
