I can help with this. Your kid isn't playing at UVA, UNC or ND. Or JHU for that matter. How do I know that? Playing the odds.

There are 108,000 high school lacrosse players in the U.S. Each of the schools above will take a class of about 12 players in a year. So, in total 48 players. So your kid has a 0.04% chance of playing at one of those schools. Good luck with that!

Play for the love of the game. Not to get some elusive scholarship.