You must remember the 5 things coaches care about when you're recruting with your daughter/son

1. winning
2. winning
3. winning
4. G.P.A. for the team
5. winning

What they do not care about is what happens to your kid after there 4 years of eligibility is up, because they can no longer help them win, so if your kid then has to spend additional resources of yours to obtain a degree to support themselves, that is a sacrifice they are willing to make. Do not fool yourself into believing a national championship in lacrosse will somehow guarantee success for your child, do not fool yourself into believing that five years after graduation the school they attended will garnish any preferential treatment if they do not have the job skills employers are looking for. Scoring goals is great but will not mean much on a job application, use lacrosse for the key that it is, to get your child into a school that will prepare them for the career they desire.