I don't know what it is, but SW seems to attract this type of parent. You'll all be pleased to know that next year, you won't care about ANY of this. Being top 5, top 10 or top 25 doesn't matter AT ALL. Likewise with which team's D or draw team is better. The college coaches are smart enough to figure out which players fit their programs, and don't give a lick about where a team is ranked. There is no place to hide. If your kid is good enough, they will find them. If your kid isn't as strong as her team's ranking might suggest, they're going to figure that out, too, which is good for both player and college coach.