You really are a giant loser , we get it you think your kid is a superstar because they committed early. Good for her but if you do not feel the system is broken and in need of some help you are delusional and are also at odds with about 90 percent of college coaches. My kids are done and the recruiting process was too early for them and has gotten even more so now. I can tell you the early commits were and are not always the best players , some just knew where they wanted to go and got an offer and jumped at it. Talk to a kids teammates about them committing early and you generally get an honest assessment as in "that's crazy what was that school thinking ", or "that makes sense she is a stud".Many of the top kids take a little extra time because they receive many offers and the coaches generally are willing to wait a little longer for a decision. Bashing people because they think having 13-14 year olds make such big decisions is too soon by saying its jealousy just shows you realize maybe your kid is not a top player despite committing early.Again the kids on the team know who the actual top players are so stop fooloing yourself.
There are only a few kids who really know with certainty where they want to go to college at such an early age. I also don't think making that decision has much to do with whether they're the top player in the age group or somewhere in the middle. Choosing a college is a huge decision for an 18 year old senior to make, and it's almost ridiculous for a 14 year old freshman to make. My daughter committed as a junior and is very happy with her choice. She knows 5 or more girls (still in high school) who committed to one school and for whatever reason changed their minds and re-committed to another school. If this early recruiting of girls continues so too will changing schools before they even set foot on campus as a college freshman.
