I couldn't agree more....ultimately they are boys (our boys) who love playing the game. We love to watch them get bigger and stronger. I'm on a team that is HATED by BOTC community and I too love to read these people complain about "holdbacks" "cheaters" . My son is a big boy. A defender but when they are lined up against the attackmen they seem to stand out like they are in high school or something. Once they get into highschool they will even out... we were in 7th grade once too