Frankly both issues are wrong..But if you think telling a player to break a 5th graders arm and belittling a 5th grader are on the same as writing an email to a HS player, might want to rethink that.
What MM did is unacceptable behavior around 5th graders.There is no Grey area. It is plain [lacrosse] wrong and he shouldn't be allowed on field for some time. Frankly, he should be suspended for some period of time. For HOCO to let these go. Just proves what type of people they are. How Howard County would want this??