Ok you have point there. But is that the norm? These college coaches will take a more physically mature kid with less skill I guarantee. Yes it's great when your kid is of age and matured physically but for most that's not the case. So many of my teammates were entirely different players from 18 to 20. There was one kid who we were like how is he here. 5'6" maybe 140 attack. Junior year he was 5'8" 175 and strong as [lacrosse] and became an incredible player.