My son played for 2 Aa teams In Baltimore. He had a great time meeting new kids and good coaches. Great group. After high school and college no one cares where you played or how many goals your boy got.
Lax is kinda like high school football 20 years ago. Parents are wrapped in this nonsense, then no one cares after the child of the sport. I was one of those wrapped up parents.
Club owners love us wrapped up types.
Focus on academics and diversifying into other activities.