Be honest, you wouldn't want 95% of any travel club parents in a foxhole with you. If you are looking trustworthy friends you have a better chance with one of your neighbors from your PAL team. Most people are playing club to get recruited and play in college. If someone gets more minutes or more points its bad for you. Everyone is paying crazy amounts of money so it kind of nullifies the koom bah ya that every club preaches they have.
If you want to be recruited by a certain school the best way to start the process is to attend their camp. You don't have to hope your chosen school comes to your game to watch. You go to them and show what you have to offer. Playing club ball hopefully raises your game to a level where College coaches will be interested. Playing with the best, and against the best will hopefully accelerate the process of obtaining the necessary skills. You don't need to drag someone else down to make someone else look good. What ever club you play for make sure it is a good fit for you and your daughter. There is no right or wrong club , just the right club for you and your daughter. Best of luck to all !
