Club lacrosse was never meant to be what it has become in terms of every girl plays. The number of teams is staggering. If your daughter's ceiling is a 3rd or 4th tier D1, or D2/D3, you really are wasting your time and money spending the thousands and thousands of dollars as well as your actual time running around the country all summer. There are so many women's college lacrosse programs there are hardly enough high school seniors each year to fill them. Take your daughter to some camps at schools she's interested in that are realistic for her. Get good grades and be prepared for the SAT. There's a lot more money in that anyway. The problem is, even the girls on these crappy club teams(more likely their parents) think they are going to play for Maryland or UNC.