Unfortunately for some of us, we have to play middle school or face the consequences from the JV/Varsity coaches. Just the way it is.....
I am very confused, here we say the kids may get punished for not playing ms/hs summer ball, but dont you want your kids to gel well with each other and dont you want them to play togther as much as possible.
If your kid is that good he could help the boys become better are you so arrogant as to not want your kid doing that.
then you may say he is playing to much, bull, because if he was invited to play with an elite all star team right after he just played with his AAA team you'd be all in, but ill play along how much is too much for a 13 - 16 yo.
I say you try and work out both. I have been around long enough to see players switching shirts on the sidelines to head out from their club win to play for their town (two fields over).
I have seen youth players be affiliated with 2 club teams and do the same thing.
why not have your cake and eat it too.
