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Has anyone ever had issues with trainer no showing to sessions. paid for sessions up front for a goalie trainer. Adult female, Mid 30s, played D1, based in Suffolk. Owes us 14 sessions (tried to be understanding person and purchase upfront as she seemed to be going through tough times). She has gone silent and MIA for the past 2 weeks. Has no showed in the past and always get excuses from her… flat tire, accident, doctor, mixed up schedule etc. She says no one forced us to pay for sessions upfront lol. How public would you make this? She pretty much stole money from us. Not returning calls, emails or instagram messages. What would u do? Legal route (attorney in home), public notice on social media (tagging of her club, college, an other clubs to stay away etc)? What would you do?

What I wouldn’t do is go on the internet and put everything about this trainer but her name and blood type in your post. It’s obvious you’re trying to embarrass her. If anyone trains a goalie they know who this is, and she’s a good kid. Instead of running to social media for a public stoning, settle up face to face. If you have an “attorney in home” they are already probably advising you the legal route to $500 - $1000 it not worth the to time.

What I wouldn’t do is go on the internet and put everything about this trainer but her name and blood type in your post. It’s obvious you’re trying to embarrass her. If anyone trains a goalie they know who this is, and she’s a good kid. Instead of running to social media for a public stoning, settle up face to face. If you have an “attorney in home” they are already probably advising you the legal route to $500 - $1000 it not worth the to time.

Ok buddy “she is a good kid” that gets paid for upfront services and disappears? In what world is that ok? We text her the day before to confirm, she confirms, then no shows the next day (On multiple occasions) . Again, please do inform us in what business this makes sense.

Face to face when she doesn’t return calls or texts? if you know her, tell her to reach out to me as would like to resolve amicably.
please use some logic before replying next time.

Its way early in the process. The top LI girls will all be committed in the next 2 weeks. Girls are starting campus visits this weekend.

No club prepares to their athletes for the recruitment process like TG. From the start of the process to the prep for 9/1. Guidance once the process starts, always available by text or phone. This is what its about getting your kid recruited and prepared for playing in college, not t-shirts in 6th grade.

Has anyone ever had issues with trainer no showing to sessions. paid for sessions up front for a goalie trainer. Adult female, Mid 30s, played D1, based in Suffolk. Owes us 14 sessions (tried to be understanding person and purchase upfront as she seemed to be going through tough times). She has gone silent and MIA for the past 2 weeks. Has no showed in the past and always get excuses from her… flat tire, accident, doctor, mixed up schedule etc. She says no one forced us to pay for sessions upfront lol. How public would you make this? She pretty much stole money from us. Not returning calls, emails or instagram messages. What would u do? Legal route (attorney in home), public notice on social media (tagging of her club, college, an other clubs to stay away etc)? What would you do?

You are not the only one.

She stop posting and turned her phone off for 2 weeks so I imagine upset people are trying to reach her. Thinking of reporting to USA lacrosse because have heard that she is interviewing with them. Would be great if additional folks could message via the misconduct reporting page on USA lacrosse website. She is literally stealing. It’s a shame she did not learn anything at Loyola, Notre dame, JMU. As I write this… now I know why she cannot hold a coaching position. What a disappointment.

I know posting names here is typically not allowed but in this case it should be. It prevents people from being scammed and losing money.

Will give her some time to resolve any issues she is having.

Otherwise, I will be posting the name here on Tuesday October 1st at 12 noon.

Stayed tuned….

Oct 1 at High Noon ? This isnt a duel, We will have forgotten by then. Give her a few more days , then publish . She doesnt deserve extra time

Her name is Kerry Stoothoff- any goalie parents please be aware. Do not engage. She is based out of Bayport. Complete disgrace to the Loyola, notre dame and JMU family. Also still on the Legacy Lacrosse page as a goalie trainer.

Her name is Kerry Stoothoff- any goalie parents please be aware. Do not engage. She is based out of Bayport. Complete disgrace to the Loyola, notre dame and JMU family. Also still on the Legacy Lacrosse page as a goalie trainer.

She should be ashamed of herself for doing that. Lets hope this spreads like wild fire and hears about it from people who know her. Maybe she pays her debt then. I dont have much hope as once a thief, usually again a thief.

Has to be drugs. No normal person would behave like she has. She's taken a lot of parents, and damaged a lot of people's reputations. Its a shame, she was a great goalie in her day.

Did she make good ?