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Not all, North Carolina finished higher than their preseason ranking. 🤣

Completely!

Coach Hillier resigns from Drexel.

Drexel certainly did her a favor handling things the way they did and allowing her to "resign"

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Whats the backstory

It’s no one’s business

Actually it is if your kid is thinking about Drexel.

Well KH is no longer at Drexel so that shouldn't be a concern. But in the rare chance KH is hired by someone else it would be worth knowing.

No idea what happened but it's a shame, Drexel was on the upswing... Hopefully they continue to improve.

It's a very ugly story. Hopefully she has taken some time to reflect and will make better decisions going forward.

Stop trying to insinuate things. If your kid is thinking of going to Drexel, why do you think you have a right to know why she left? She's not the coach there anymore, therefore it's none of your (or anyone's) business.

My kid isn't going to Drexel but my daughter is friends with girls on the team and I know what happened. Those girls on the team and the assistants that took over did an amazing job winning the CAA with those distractions.

Actually it is if your kid is thinking about Drexel.[/quote]

Well KH is no longer at Drexel so that shouldn't be a concern. But in the rare chance KH is hired by someone else it would be worth knowing.[/quote]

No idea what happened but it's a shame, Drexel was on the upswing... Hopefully they continue to improve.[/quote]

It's a very ugly story. Hopefully she has taken some time to reflect and will make better decisions going forward.[/quote]
Stop trying to insinuate things. If your kid is thinking of going to Drexel, why do you think you have a right to know why she left? She's not the coach there anymore, therefore it's none of your (or anyone's) business.[/quote]

Love the people here. Wasn't me who said it was an ugly story. But I am the one who said it does matter if your kid wants to go to the school. Just because she's not there anymore doesn't mean it's fine. If the reason she left had something to do with something that occurred in that team or at that school a potential recruit should be aware of that. If it something that occurred in her private life, nobody's business. Coastal Carolina went through this last year and it did have something to do with the team and involving the team yet it was "deemed personal and none of anybody's business."

to reiterate because there is more than one sentence here for some of you who like to cherry pick.... If it is truly personal, nobody's business. IF it is something she was doing at school or with the kids on the team
Yes people should know.

Maybe. I wonder if that was the same exact thing people were saying in 1999 when Sandusky left for personal reasons.

Well KH is no longer at Drexel so that shouldn't be a concern. But in the rare chance KH is hired by someone else it would be worth knowing.[/quote]

No idea what happened but it's a shame, Drexel was on the upswing... Hopefully they continue to improve.[/quote]

It's a very ugly story. Hopefully she has taken some time to reflect and will make better decisions going forward.[/quote]
Stop trying to insinuate things. If your kid is thinking of going to Drexel, why do you think you have a right to know why she left? She's not the coach there anymore, therefore it's none of your (or anyone's) business.[/quote]

Love the people here. Wasn't me who said it was an ugly story. But I am the one who said it does matter if your kid wants to go to the school. Just because she's not there anymore doesn't mean it's fine. If the reason she left had something to do with something that occurred in that team or at that school a potential recruit should be aware of that. If it something that occurred in her private life, nobody's business. Coastal Carolina went through this last year and it did have something to do with the team and involving the team yet it was "deemed personal and none of anybody's business."

to reiterate because there is more than one sentence here for some of you who like to cherry pick.... If it is truly personal, nobody's business. IF it is something she was doing at school or with the kids on the team
Yes people should know.[/quote]
She is no longer there, so if it had to do with the school and players clearly it was taken care of because she no longer coaches there and IS NO ONES business outside of the current team and school. WHY is this so difficult to understand????

Well considering she also coaches young girls at the club level......

Unless your daughter is currently a player there, it’s none of your business. Plain & simple. Your daughter who is thinking of going there, still none of your business. Why? Because she no longer coaches there so therefore doesn’t impact your daughter in anyway. Can we move on now?

Sorry you are just wrong. Not knowing what the issue was its impossible to say who's "business" it is. You strike me as the type who sits around when people are being abused and says its none of your business because it has no direct impact on you. Thats the type of attitude that allows bad things to happen to people to afraid to speak up for themselves.

That’s a stretch, really? If you aren’t a part of the team or school , it’s still none of your business. Nothing you can say would make me feel otherwise.

Just curious if you actually know what happened. And if so if you'd be ok with your daughter playing for KH for YJ or if she gets another coaching job.

Wow , no one on this site cares how you feel . You keep silent when people are doing something wrong let the non cowards speak up.

Give me a break! You are ASSUMING she didn’t something wrong! You are ASSUMING this is something bad. Can you stop now?

The fact that an adult wants to come on here and create an issue where there may not be one! And then an adult wants to come on here and berate and call someone names because they don’t think the way you do?! Bottom line is if it’s some thing the public needs to know it will come out. If your daughter goes to the school then I’m sure she already knows what the issue is. But hey there might not be an issue! It may actually be personal. You have no idea what is going on in this woman’s life and you have no right to go onto a forum and assume the worst. But, I guess keep on being yourself and keep on calling people names I guess that’s all you know how to do.

I understand about someone's private life being off limits in most cases, but we are talking about someone coaching 17-22 year old young women. It's the complete cloak of silence that causes me real concern reading these posts. When your a high level coach dealing with young people, all your actions are subject to public scrutiny. My only question is would this be a much bigger issue if the coach were a man? I detest to even go down that path, but the "percieved cover up" make me think the worst.

When a coach is escorted off the practice field by campus security maybe the school or coach in question should address why.

Is that true? Did that actually happen?

Yes, but haven't you heard? It's nobody's business.

I do know what happened, and I would be fine with it. Nothing happened that just about everyone posting on here hasn't done themselves.

Sorry you are just wrong. Not knowing what the issue was its impossible to say who's "business" it is. You strike me as the type who sits around when people are being abused and says its none of your business because it has no direct impact on you. Thats the type of attitude that allows bad things to happen to people to afraid to speak up for themselves.[/quote]
That’s a stretch, really? If you aren’t a part of the team or school , it’s still none of your business. Nothing you can say would make me feel otherwise.[/quote]

Just curious if you actually know what happened. And if so if you'd be ok with your daughter playing for KH for YJ or if she gets another coaching job.[/quote]

Of course he wouldn’t. But because his daughter doesn’t he can say the “it’s none of your business.” Laughable.
Was none of any bodies business why Sandusky left PSU in 1999 either.

Just spit it out already, if you know what happened and you are fine with it then put all of this nonsense to bed and tell us. If we have all done it what is the big deal?

Because we all haven't done it. I would venture to say most of us have not been entrusted with the wellbeing of 40 18-22 year old young women.

Innuendo can at times be more damaging than the truth to a reputation.

Doubtful in this case

So, we have several people on this thread who claim to know the reason why the coach is no longer employed by Drexel. Some have no problem with whatever took place and some believe whatever happened was terrible. What I find odd is that nobody is willing to tell the truth about the situation. Innuendo creates speculation, seems to me it would just be better to put the truth out there. As the saying goes: "The truth shall set you free". Cover ups never end well.

Anyone that doesn't have a problem with it doesn't know what happened. Several lines were crossed. That said, Drexel chose to allow her to resign and not make public what happened. There's no sense dragging KH's name through the mud. My guess is she won't coach again as I'm sure any potential future school will call Drexel who will have to be forthcoming with the actual circumstances that led to her being removed from the practice field back in April and not being a part of the team from that day forward.

I have no idea what happened but if she was allowed to resign, it would be illegal for Drexel to provide any reason to potential future employees as to anything that happened. All they can say would be dates of employment and is she eligible for rehire

You are such a simpleton , as previously stated not knowing what the issue was it’s impossible to say who’s business it is . That said if she was let go without having done something wrong you would not be so adamant about saying it’s no one’s business .

"There's no sense dragging KH's name through the mud." Yet that is exactly what you did in your post.

IT IS NO ONES BUSINESS.

You are such a simpleton , as previously stated not knowing what the issue was it’s impossible to say who’s business it is . That said if she was let go without having done something wrong you would not be so adamant about saying it’s no one’s business .[/q
If it is something personal, it is none of your business. If it is something "business" and has nothing to do with your daughter/team, it is none of your business! If your daughter goes to the school and plays on the team, your daughter would know what happened. Therefore, I am assuming your daughter does NOT go to the school so it is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS