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As long as a parent coach has any influence on who plays where and fir how much …. It is NOT beneficial

Depends on which one. My D had a great one , who also ran the club. She learned a lot about the game and no Daddy ball. Then she switched teams and had 26 y/o ex-player who was on her cell phone most of the time.

They are doing well, 2-0 which is first in their group. Likely won’t play any stiff competition until playoffs.

Red is the new black

MDU and Integrity have mommy ball coaches. Is it working for the team? Only daughter and daughter friends play.. No skills, just get the ball run and try to shoot but they always miss. They haven’t grown as players.

Nope. Not working and they’ll both get crushed today
Integrity continuing to try to recruit top goalie and field players from each other’s team and Baltimore clubs- but nobody touching w the bad coaching and all the drama surrounding both teams
Attempting to take our players mid season is dirty and makes you all look bad. Tells us anyone can be replaced mid season, and the coaches could care less about the players
Baltimore clubs have loyalty and that’s why they are on top!

Oh please! Stop dad.

A few red will be on black in fall! That’s a fact. Black needs athletic attackers and a 2nd goalie.

Much different than saying Red is the new Black.

A few red will be on black in fall! That’s a fact. Black needs athletic attackers and a 2nd goalie.[/quote]

The future second goalie isn’t from Red

The future second goalie isn’t from Red[/quote]

MDU goalie who tried to bail on her team in the winter?

I can assure you it’s not a Red parents stating this nonsense. A parent troll on the Black team most definitely is starting drama. Trying to redirect drama from their losses today onto the red team. I hear how awful the parents and players talk about the red team. So don’t believe a word you read, I see the red team girls and they are working hard to prove themselves and nothing more. BTW i am parent who used to have older girls on the older teams and now have a daughter on a different team. So this is an outside statement and observation. . Have watched and listened and it’s quite disappointing.

MDU goalie who tried to bail on her team in the winter?[/quote]
Yup and her dad who is now chummy with Black goalie dad and Heros green goalie dad. Trust me they are trying out for both teams. Feel bad for the team that takes her and the dad they are ALL drama!! His little man syndrome gets in the way.

Yup and her dad who is now chummy with Black goalie dad and Heros green goalie dad. Trust me they are trying out for both teams. Feel bad for the team that takes her and the dad they are ALL drama!! His little man syndrome gets in the way.[/quote]
Hopefully the red team gets new goalies. Not sure what the coaches are thinking. After watching them this weekend, the defense on red is the game changer NOT the goalies. Change has to happen in that department in order for them to keep going forward and NOT backward.

Stop trying to spread these lies again. Watched and listened, what a joke. I am a Red parent, and the parents and players don’t seem to say anything at all about our team.

Looked like HG brought on a third coach this weekend

Yup and her dad who is now chummy with Black goalie dad and Heros green goalie dad. Trust me they are trying out for both teams. Feel bad for the team that takes her and the dad they are ALL drama!! His little man syndrome gets in the way.[/quote]

I hope she makes black, if anyone can give that current goalie a challenge w personality alone it’s her! No way MDU golaie would ever get bullied, and MDU goalie would be the one bullying the current goalie off. Bring it, this would be quite something to watch.

Stop trying to spread these lies again. Watched and listened, what a joke. I am a Red parent, and the parents and players don’t seem to say anything at all about our team.[/quote]

Don’t be obtuse. The absolute worst parents are on Red. Make no mistake about it.

. A parent troll on the Black team most definitely is starting drama. Trying to redirect drama from their losses today onto the red team. I hear how awful the parents and players talk about the red team. So don’t believe a word you read, I see the red team girls and they are working hard to prove themselves and nothing more. BTW i am parent who used to have older girls on the older teams and now have a daughter on a different team. So this is an outside statement and observation. . Have watched and listened and it’s quite disappointing.[/quote]

This is the troll job supreme

Hopefully the red team gets new goalies. Not sure what the coaches are thinking. After watching them this weekend, the defense on red is the game changer NOT the goalies. Change has to happen in that department in order for them to keep going forward and NOT backward.[/quote]

Lil problem in the pipes. Shouldn’t point fingers as they point right back

Stop trying to spread these lies again. Watched and listened, what a joke. I am a Red parent, and the parents and players don’t seem to say anything at all about our team.[/quote]

Please stop with the self righteous red parent thing
Because behind fake actions and cakes for coaches lies deceit, snickering and falsehood of some disillusioned disingenuous parents

Nailed it.

All I can say is that all of these comments paint a vivid picture of toxicity at M&D. Sounds like a great bunch to share a sideline with.

Don’t be obtuse. The absolute worst parents are on Red. Make no mistake about it.[/quote]
Since you know the red parents so well… give some legit examples. You continuously come on this forum and state the red parents are awful. I want examples, not making up lies but true examples as to why the red team parents are awful. Clear the air for once.

If your sideline is rainbows and unicorns you must not be winning. See winning brings out the best in lax parents.

You mean your own comments, which have no factual basis?

Nailed it.

Did someone’s daughter get cut from the team? So now you spew your detest and negativity to a group of girls who are just trying to prove themselves. Prove themselves to their peers, coaches and eachother. If you have issues with the red team parents and players I encourage you to come and talk to us so we can sprinkle you with love and kindness.

Congrats to Aces for winning this weekend. So nice to have a different club win. Hopefully this trend will continue and these more competitive clubs keep beating the number 1 and number 2 teams. Humble pie is what they all need.

Did someone’s daughter get cut from the team? So now you spew your detest and negativity to a group of girls who are just trying to prove themselves. Prove themselves to their peers, coaches and eachother. If you have issues with the red team parents and players I encourage you to come and talk to us so we can sprinkle you with love and kindness.[/quote]

I think the comments were about some parents not all of the parents and clearly not about any group of girls
but watching this from afar I can see where there is smoke there is fire

Comments are about the parents. Their inflated egos developed on the accomplishments of their kids performance vs other kids is sad. Not setting a good example for the young ladies.

Something to be said for a team whose roster goes through minimal changes every offseason. Aces was less talented but won because they have the best team, not the best collection of players.

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team>player

The comments were about the red parents

Which is ONLY a B team at best.

Exactly there is NO I team. Aces played as a team. Zero showboating, none of this not going to pass because I want to score, playing as a team always pays off in the end. I wonder if the hype girl parents will remove their home made sticker off their car now. M and D is Number 1!! Might want to peel that off so NOT a good look.

What egos a bunch of kids working Bard there are some jerks on every sideline . Live the dream let the girls learn and grow on all teams .

Couldn’t be more true. There was no one standout on Aces, they moved the ball flawlessly. MND gave them a solid challenge, but their defense couldn’t stop the fast movement. Integrity got spanked- when Integrity faced solid top teams their only player (tall draw) gets outplayed. Integrity had no depth and no defense- Aces dominated that game.

Couldn’t be more true. There was no one standout on Aces, they moved the ball flawlessly. MND gave them a solid challenge, but their defense couldn’t stop the fast movement. Integrity got spanked- when Integrity faced solid top teams their only player (tall draw) gets outplayed. Integrity had no depth and no defense- Aces dominated that game.[/quote]

What game did you watch?! Aces was the better team but in no way did they dominate and they weren't flawless. MND missed ALOT of shots and looked tired. Intergity tall draw girl should try out for MND Black.

Goalie not holding up well for Integrity. Not the goalie the mom over hyped for anyone and everyone to hear. Just think this will carry over to Spalding High school. The same BS, the same noise, and will never make it in the IAAM top 4.

Standouts make the players around them better. That’s why the call it a team sport.