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You sound like a hero’s parent (or a former one for sure). It’s not a real win? Your daughter’s team lost, accept it, it won’t kill you and grow up.

Mid season tryout but none of the current girls risk their spot. So yeah, 26 girls on a team!

Parents, coaches, directors, please stop the drama. We beg you! Let’s share stories of training, camps, NGLL, upcoming HS season, etc.

There was a time where BOTC made everyone’s email required to post. Those emails were also able to be seen from past posts which is not a “good look”!

Clean it up and use the forum as intended, to share good information. You have been warned.

Yet here you are posting anonymously. Why are you warning and shaking your finger? What has been posted by parents has turned out to be true with Integrity and these tryouts. Thank goodness it was brought to light because a lot of our daughters would have been blind sided Now we have the option to plan and move on in the summer. So thank you BOTC parents. Carry on.

Try way more than that, and it won’t stop this year. This is the new philosophy.

At least my plea will be a somewhat voice of reason.

The truth hurts.

Truth!! And it has only gotten worse in the past couple years.

Why? Because they had mid year tryouts? Every team does that.

Really? I have never heard of a team doing that. Its encouraging these girls to break their commitments to their existing teams and teammates. Why would any team promote that?

Was it an actual tryout or a practice with a few select players from other teams sprinkled in? Was it posted on their website or Facebook page for any girl to come? If so I know a few girls who would've gone.

Agreed...every team does all of it- I’m so confused why all the detest for integrity and Spaulding (granted I think it’s likely only 1-2 people that have no life and spend their day trolling over and over). Regardless, I’m not affiliated with those organizations but what is described happens everywhere in maryland? St Paul coach hugely affiliated with mnd and will bring in at least 6 freshman and then her own team right behind it. There are a zillion examples...Just like at every school in this conference- only the best will be playing (literally nonstop) regardless of what club they come- They are all ruthless- they will recruit transfers (clubs and hs) all with no apologies or getting the troll’s prior approval.

This is maryland lax- if your daughter isn’t playing- she needs to talk to the coach to see what/if she can improve- work harder but she’s probably just not as good so be fine with her riding the bench. Simple as that. Let’s stop blaming this poor women for your daughter’s shortcomings (considering this is the best conf in the nation) - it is what it is.

Great post. Life isnt fair. You dont like it, work harder. Club teams and High School will be recruiting all the time and are always looking to get better.

"only the best will be playing (literally nonstop) regardless of what club they come"
You must be new to this page, go spend time on the HS page and see what is being said over at Spalding. Its her team, she can run it as she sees fit, but there's repercussions.

Yes, St Paul coach pulls from M&D as does McDonough, and it makes sense when that club has a top-3 team in every age group that the M&D girls would be playing a lot in HS.

Practice with girls from multiple other teams. 30ish total girls. Call it what you like.

My daughter has played for multiple teams, they all did it. Obviously I haven’t seen all teams but seems normal at the high level teams.

Yeah because the ML era was soooooo great! For progress to happen you might have to upset the apple cart at times. Get over it.

HS coach of the year MG did it with her M&D team (had several Heros players at her practices). So it does happen ALL the time

Those girls were trying out for the team. MG was not replacing or bringing on girls mid season. However Coach of the year MG did tell the girls during the tournament who was staying on black, who got demoted to Red and who got cut from the team. It’s all a life lessons IMO.

It sounds like they had to make it seem like a tryout but they already knew they were taking the LBC goalie and players the LBC coach/mom encouraged to follow.

This is exactly what it was, you have to have the illusion of players "earning their spot".

I do wonder if this helps the team on the field, certainly going to be growing pains off of it.

Not to mention LBC coach/mom felt the need to pillage the 26 team she coached for years on her way out.

Well, seems like LBC 26 was going to lose those kids anyways one way or the other.
I wonder if this trend continues for 27 28 teams?

Not in the middle of the season but I guess it's better to get rid of the goalie momma drama asap.

You sound so sincere

So with all the new additions how many girls are on integrity green now? Did they move one of the goalies or will there really be 3?

Hear there will be 3 with weekly practice performance determining who plays,

Whole situation is just sad to me. LBC obviously hurt by this. Integrity current players hurt by this. Not sure who really benefits, maybe former LBC goalie if she was in bad environment.

I am sure those goalies will be the best of friends lol.

You can't play three goalies, so best case you split halves unless they just only play LBC goalie.
one of those goalies, if not two are not going to get what they signed up for.

If you start a season thinking you are one of two goalies and pay tuition it is not fair to now be put in a position where you might not play at all. If roles were reversed LBC goalie mom would be losing it more than usual.

The LBC goalie was not in a bad situation her mom wants her to go to Spalding and thought this was the best way in. Not sure why the mom didn't consider the impact of disrupting another team. She obviously wasn't thinking about her own daughter and her future on this team or at Spalding.

This makes it sound like the LBC goalie couldn’t get into Spalding unless she was on Integrity, I really really hope that wasn’t some back alley agreement made in that respect.

Everyone gets into Spalding.

Integrity "the act of behaving honorably, adherence to moral and ethical principals". Integrity is honesty without deception, following through on your commitments you made to players. Maybe they should change the back of their warm up shirts to read "I work hard so I can be replaced midseason" Seems more appropriate.

100% accurate on both points.

Myth, helmets do not promote aggressive play. Look it up. And if anything a girl wearing a helmet is less likely to get a call. Especially if you're a goalie.

I know plenty of kids who have been denied admission to Spalding. Not sure where you are going with your comment but you’re wrong.

Yo, wrong thread my dude. This one is for bashing Integrity at the moment.

True but according to a previous thread LBC goalie is getting a free ride.

Ha, It is a bit ironic.