Everyone worries about the wrong stuff at this age it’s about getting better, hard work and learning the correct way to play the game. Here is the biggest problem PARENTS WITH UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS. Know your kid is she having fun and getting better if that is happening then your in a good spot . My experience is parents ruin everything
But what’s the right way to get better? Riding the pine but practicing at a high level (on a top team) or starting against lesser comp (lower team)?