I don't get why playing to win is accepted in every other sport . Youth football, little league baseball, travel baseball, travel soccer, travel bball, no chance it's equal playing time and for the most part it is not expected to be . Why in girls lacrosse do you expect equal playing time .if it's a championship tournament you should expect to play to win. In a game that is not a one goal game it's a lot easier to get kids in but in those tight games playing time will not be equal. If it's not something you are willing to accept then you need to consider , moving to a team your child will get more playing time , either YJ or another group. The other thing is to those people whose kid gets the aying time you need to realize it may not always be your kid .