all you have to do is step out onto the lax field with them and have your kids look up in the air about a foot and say "how old are you" to one of the players on the other team, and have them hesitate and say "um, 12. wait, I mean 13" and/or "hey - what grade are you in" and have them answer with no hesitation "10th - what about you" (yes, this happened at Young Guns this weekend - in 2019. And it wasn't a Crabs team. For real. Really!), and you have your answer.
Oh come on, just for shitz and gigglez, give us a team name for this big strapping lad so we can be looking for them
